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The Long Read- 7 min read

On waiting lists, and what to do when the offer does not come.

The waiting list is not a lottery. It is a system with habits. Movement happens in predictable windows, and the letter matters more than most families think.

By The Editors

Every year in early March, several thousand London families open an email they had not quite prepared for. Not a rejection — those are awful but legible — but the waiting list. A soft maybe. A door left visibly ajar.